In Memory of
Dr. Dilip Patel
A magnanimous soul with a great heart,
a noble mind, and a generous spirit
His Legacy
Dilip will be remembered by the many people that he touched over the course of his life for his devotion and passion for his family and for being a respected and dedicated physician. He selflessly poured his time, energy, and effort towards everyone he encountered. He was a man who helped others without expecting anything in return. Being a man of a few words, he made his impact on people through his actions. He held everyone to a higher standard and did it all with humility and kindness. Being the pillar of their lives, friends and family knew that he could always be counted on to guide and support them through any challenge. There is not a person whose life he touched who is not better for knowing him. He was an inspiration to all, and we will continue to honor his legacy by treating everyone the way he did.
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May we find solace in the loving memories we shared with him
Memories and Messages
My name is Amish and I am Dilip’s son. I would like to thank the close family and friends that are here today and all the people watching on-line, in the celebration of the memory and life of my father.
My dad was born in Borsad, India and finished medical school in Baroda India. He moved to America thereafter so that he could provide his family with a better life. After completing this residency and fellowship he eventually moved to Southern California to start practicing medicine.
My dad was a strict father. I suppose you become that way when you have two bratty sons—only drinking water after finishing dinner and no watching TV after coming home from school. I guess it was his way of saying, “you guys have it pretty good”. But in the midst of all that we also saw his gentler side—playing with our family pets after coming home from work; stopping by a garden just to take a picture of some flowers.
After I went to medical school, the strictness started to fade. He would call me just to make sure I was happy. We would talk medicine. He would explain concepts in medicine that I had difficulty grasping. He encouraged me. When things got difficult, he would say they will get better. He wasn’t just my dad anymore; he was a close friend. A mentor.
My dad was dedicated to his family. He brought his entire family from India to the US so that they could all be together. He showed my brother and I how to take care of the people that are close to you. Whenever we had family crisis he was there. He was always there. I wish I had the opportunity to take care of him the way he took care of his parents. I’ll take care of mom, dad, the same way you took care of your parents; you don’t have to worry about it.
My dad was dedicated to his job. I can remember him taking our family out for dinner on Friday nights, only to have us stop by ICH on the way home so that he can check in on a patient. This must have happened at least 100 times. My family and I have spent hours in the ICH parking lot just looking out the window. My mom and brother would always pressure him to retire. “We are both grown up, settled down, and have good jobs” we would say; “you don’t have to work anymore”. But his response every time would be the same, “As long as I am able to walk and use my brain, I am going to help my patients”.
This all came full circle when early last year I started working at the same hospitals where he was working for 35 years. During my first shift at ICH I got told by a security guard to move my car because I was parked in the wrong area. But it was the same area my dad had taken our family to all those years. I kept a low profile and didn’t tell anyone that I was Dr. D. Patel’s son. But the cat was out of the bag when he would walk around the hospital telling everyone that his son is a radiologist and works here now. Everyone who knew my dad would go out of their way to tell me stories about him, and they all had a common theme…that he was a good person, a nice man… and that he cared. And every time I heard a story about him and about the person he was…it made me so DAMN proud of him.
And while my feelings of pain and sorrow will fade over time, my feeling of being proud of my dad and man he was, will last forever.
Thank you
Amish Patel (son)
A symbol of strength, courage, hard work, dedication, selflessness, and compassionate are only a few words that I can use to describe my dad. Dad was the pillar of strength for our family, who would never waiver in the face of a challenge. He always had an answer for any situation, and if he didn’t, he would know who would be the best person that will navigate us through that situation.
If you were in our household in the 80’s and the 90’s one word that anyone would describe my dad was very strict, and I can attest to that because I was the one that was always in trouble. He was strict with everything, including education, and his belief was if you got a problem wrong, for example a long division problem, he would make you write out the same problem thirty times so you will learn to never make the same mistake again. If you misspelled the word neighbor on your spelling test, he would make you write the same word 100 times, well I guess his method worked because I am now somewhat decent in math and I know how to spell neighbor now. My dad held that title of a strict father until my mid 20’s, and that’s when our relationship changed from a father son relationship to more of a best friend relationship. We would talk about work, or he would have projects lined up at the house for me to work on or randomly call me to see if I wanted to get dinner with the family on the weekend.
Dad was a foodie, and when he found a restaurant that he liked, he made sure everyone he knew about his find. From hole in the wall Thai Restaurants, or Indian restaurants that are 30 miles away from his house. He would go out of his way for the love of food, that his love was shown by the owners of Siam Palace, who named a dish after him, called Dr. Patel Tofu. He used his passion for food to bring families and together for amazing dinners and get togethers.
Dad was dedicated to his medical practice, which I have always wondered why someone at the age of 72 will want to work 7 days a week, and never complained about work or working long hours. Some part of me thought he did it because he would be bored at home if he retired, but that wasn’t it. Over the past 72 hours, I have learned what kept him going. It was very simple!! He truly cared, he wanted to help people, he did it all from the bottom of his heart. Not one time did he ask for recognition or an award, not one time did he tell us someone didn’t say thank you, not one time did he complain about calls at random times of the night, not one time did he even tell his wife and kids what he has done for so many people. To my amazement, I am now just learning of some of these stories from colleagues, patients, and family members what my dad did for them, and its amazing to know the impact one person can have on so many people. If there are two word that I can use to describe my dad, it would be a humble gentleman.
Anyone who knows my dad, knows how truly they are blessed to ever cross paths with him. Including his two grandchildren Ayden and Nyah. Over the past few months, the kids would have a 30-minute facetime session with dad, where they would read with him, and discuss various topics such as geography, animals, and how the human body works. He would always figure out a way to spoil the grandkids with his time, love, books, toys or candy. Dad, both kids are going to miss you so much, from reading with you, to going to frozen yogurt with you. I will make sure they cherish your memory forever and continue in your footsteps with our kids.
To celebrate my dad, my wife Reshma and my cousins Manish and Kevin made an amazing website honoring his legacy. Part of that website , they added a comment section, where friends, family and colleagues can share a memory of my dad. Over the past 24 hours, I have received over 150 messages and I have read each and every one of them. It brings me happiness that my dad truly came into this world with an agenda on his mind, which is he is going to make the world a better place before he leaves, by helping any and everyone that is in need. From seeing a patient who cant afford to pay for an office visit, or dropping everything he is doing to care for a ill family member. I am convinced now the world is a better place since my dad was here, and now that he is gone, its my job to continue his legacy.
Mom, while dad is here in spirit, your two boys, two daughter in laws, two grandchildren, future grandchildren and countless number of family and friends will be here to support you physically, emotionally and mentally. We love you, lets make this a celebration of dads life together.
Lastly, nobody can be perfect and everyone makes mistakes, but Dad was as close to being the perfect Dad anyone could have. I appreciate the memories I have with my dad and know he is smiling down on all of us. Thank you again for coming out today to celebrate the memory of my amazing father.
Amit Patel (son)
Pa, I like to read books with you at night. And I love you very much. My favorite memory of you is going to Sea World and the Zoo. I'm going to miss having Menchies with you. And I love you taking care of me. Can you please visit me in my dreams? And can you please come back? I love you because you are nice to me. I was going to work hard for you in school because I love you very much and I'm still gonna work hard all of my life.
I'm sending you a Magic Treehouse book so you can keep reading with me.
Ayden Patel (6 year old Grandson)
Pa, me and Ayden love you so much. We love you a lot because we have a great time with you and Amma. Now, I miss you Pa so much. I will read anytime you want me to read because I miss you so much and love you, I promise. You will be in my heart and I will see you in the stars. JayJayBaba (God) will take good care of you. Pa, have a great time at JayJayBaba's house, we miss you and we saw Sona. Amma loves you a lot too. Everyone loves you a lot too Pa because we all miss you so much. Pa, I wish we went to the stars with you.
I'm sending you a sharpie so you can write us a note and we can write you back.
Nyah Patel (5 year old Granddaughter)
My brother was my rock. He lifted me up during the darkest times. I looked up to him as a father and knew that I could count on him for anything. Not only did he devote and dedicate his time and energy taking care of our parents, but he spent endless hours taking care of myself and Sheena during Mukesh’s illness. We are all so lucky and blessed to have had a man like him in our lives. He holds a place in my heart that can be filled by no one else. I love and miss you dearly.
Jaimini Amin (Sister)
My relation with my brother was at low point when we both were in college. He was a studious in his studies to be a medical Doctor and completely devoted to his studies. I was completely opposite to what he was and that was the friction between us. After his studies in India he left for USA until we both met again on my first visit for vacation to States. At that time he was doing his Fellowship in Pulmonary at Mt. Vernon, MO. He took vacation for me from his busy schedule and took me to Chicago and Indianapolis to meet his friends. Communication wise we exchanged very few words but without saying anything he always assured me that he will always there for me. In my darkest days he was always there to give me a hand to lift me up. I had few challenges in my life and was able to come out of it because of him. My brother really like variety of food to eat and since last few years he would call me on my mobile asking what I was doing and ask me to come to his home before him finishing his work on weekends to have dinner together surprising my sister in law as to why we were there. I am going to miss him dearly but will always cherish what he did for me and my family.
Niranjan Patel (Brother)
Dilip mama was the most selfless, generous, giving, and loving man. He dedicated his life to serving others and was the glue to our family. When it came to our grandparents (his parents) he was a devoted son. He made sure that they never experienced any hardship and that they were well taken care of. When it came to my dad (his brother in law), he was our biggest support system. In the 10 months of his illness, he was there EVERY single day. Not only would he check on my dad multiple times a day, but he would make sure that my mom and I were eating properly and drop off food every night. When I would be sick, he would come see me and drop of medication. He told me that even though dad is no longer here, that he is and that mom and I wouldn’t ever have to hesitate or worry. He supported us and guided us through every aspect of life even if he himself was having a rough day. I considered him my second father. He always put others needs before his own, and that truly is something so special and hard to come by. Dilip mama was an extreme foodie. He loved to try new foods. When he would go to a restaurant, he would order an endless amount of food so that everything can be tried. He even created his own dish at his favorite Thai Restaurant and they named the dish after him: “Dr. Patel’s tofu”. His love for animals was contagious. Just a couple months ago, I noticed how my dog would be attracted to Dilip Mama’s energy. His passion for photography and capturing nature and memories was something that he was known for. Even while being an exceptional physician, he made room for his hobbies and simultaneously managed to be an extraordinary grandfather, father, son, husband, brother, and uncle. To say that we are lucky to have known such a man is an understatement. Heaven truly gained an angel. May his soul Rest In Peace.
Sheena Shah
For as long as I can remember Kaka has always been the pillar of our family, always making sure our family stayed well connected through regular family get togethers. During these times he always made sure to ask how we were all doing, and to offer guidance and advice when it was needed, all while making sure our bellies were full to the brim with delicious food. He was selfless, engaging, supportive, and was willing to lend a listening ear where it was most needed. Reflecting on it all now, I fully realize that he exemplified these qualities in all facets of his life, most notably with the patients he cared for. I had the opportunity to work at his practice for a few years, where I witnessed firsthand his rapport with his patients. He was stern but compassionate with them, a well-strived initiative on his part to make his patients feel empowered to take control of their health. One of his most endearing qualities was his keenness on capturing memories through photography- photography of nature, photography of friends and family, photography of the key milestones in our family’s lives. It is in these photographs that we will look back and cherish these moments and memories and be grateful for the time we got with him. Kaka, you will be deeply missed.
Priya Patel
Growing up, if he knew I was sick, he would call me and make sure I got the right medicine quickly so I would be better. When I began working, he knew I struggled with finding clothes that fit, so he had his tailor meet us at home in West Covina and built me an entire custom wardrobe! If it were not for Masa, I might still be eating only pizza and Taco Bell to this day - he always took us to try new cuisines and expanded our horizons. I can’t believe he is no longer with us and will miss him a lot.
Anup Patel
Some of my favorite memories from childhood are from the summer we spent in California as kids. Dilip Masa would load all of the cousins into his van and take us from Disneyland to his favorite restaurants. While he was always strict when we were kids, I later on realized that discipline is what drove his dedication to his patients and family. As I grew older, he could always be counted on for a good laugh or another appeal for us to move to California. Masa, thank you for always being there for us. We’ll miss you dearly.
Raj Patel
The biggest impact Dilip Masa had on my life was my choice in profession. When I came to his house when I was 5, we were at Shakey's pizza eating Mojo Potatoes and playing games. Masa got paged to the ICU, and we had to leave Shakey's to go to the hospital. He took me inside there with him, and sat me down at the nurse's station while he went to see a patient. When he came back, he was surprised to find me eating some lime sherbert (I still remember it being so so good!), surrounded by several giggling nurses who thought I was just the cutest thing they had ever seen. I decided then and there that I wanted to be a doctor like him and get all the ice cream I wanted and to have a captive audience, and informed him as such. 😂 He had to sit me down and tell me that being a doctor wasn't about getting ice cream and making people laugh. It was about fixing people when they are sick and making them better when they are hurt. I asked him where he learned magic like that and where his magic wand was. He then explained that you do it without magic. And I was so amazed and was like "Wow! Without magic? I want to do that too!" And right there he started the fire in me to strive to be a great physician. And this true story is the one I told for my medical school admission application, and what got my shoe in the door for medical school. The interviewers told me I should thank my uncle for starting my desire for medicine, which I have. He definitely worked tirelessly his whole life to be a great physician for all his patients.
Millie Surati
Shortly after Millie was born I contacted hepatitis B and Dilipbhai and Sharda took care of Millie and me. I had so many health issues and he was always there to help and also took care of Minal for four years as his own daughter. He was a very thoughtful man and always ready to help anyone in anyway he can. He is always going to be on my mind and forever in my heart. We will miss you very much Dilipbhai.
Umi Surati
Dilip Kaka may have been my dad's best friend but as I grew up he became my second dad. He was present for every milestone, birthday, vacation, recital, dinner, and so much more! He cheered me on when I got into medical school, gave me career advice when I was looking into residency options, and always told me to follow my heart but to be 100% dedicated to my cause. After my dad had a major surgery, he was present every day to check up on him and that is a testament to who he was as a person, he was dedicated, loving, compassionate, and fiercely loyal to those he loved! I know our family will miss the nights spent at home laughing about our dad's medical school days and toasting to the friendship that lasted a lifetime but we are so grateful to have been able to spend as much time with him as we did. He truly loved and guided us as his own and we will forever cherish that! Thank you for all the memories kaka, we will miss you dearly!
Puja Patel
My earliest memories of Dilip Masa always revolved around food, whether it was rounding the family up to try his latest and greatest restaurant find, or him putting another serving of khichdi on my plate (even if I was more than full). However as the years went by, I realized how fiercely loyal he was to his family and how dedicated a physician he was. He was the person who got me involved with hospital volunteering and set me down the path of choosing medicine as a career. He has always been there countless times for many people in our family; whether it was personally arranging workup for my mother after a scary night in a hospital when we felt like she wasn't getting the appropriate work up, or especially this past year, when he showed up every single day during Vasumasi's battle with glioblastoma, no matter how busy his day was, and was always the last person to leave, being such a great source of support for all of us and taking pictures that I personally will cherish for the rest of my life. I will miss talking to him about the cases I saw during residency and fellowship, as I always enjoyed the perspective he gave and learned something from him every time. But more than that, I will miss him being a constant support in all our lives. Dilip Masa, we as a family were so lucky to have you in our lives, and you will be missed dearly.
Reshma Patel (Cousin)
Masa was always there to help. When anyone was sick in the family, he was there. He led by example as an astute physician and dedicated father and grandfather. He was also a strong force in broadening my palette when I was growing up, helping me find my taste for that food. Thank you, masa, for all you did and for helping shape me into the man I am today.
Kevin Patel
Dilip Masa was always willing to help anyone who needed it. A few years ago, the mother of one of my best friends, Ruby, was having extreme shortness of breath and noisy breathing while doing any exertion and even with laying down, even at an angle. The physician and system she was seeing wouldn't refer her or do any sort of workup at all, and they were desperate as my friend witnessed her mother stop breathing several times while sleeping. Ruby asked me for help, and I asked Dilip Masa if he would evaluate her, even though she was out of network. Without any hesitation or pause, he agreed. He evaluated her, saw several concerning things in her history and exam, and wrote a letter to her physician and insurance company outlining his concerning findings and recommendations and backup for his recommendations. Because of this, the workup was done and there were 2 issues found, both of which needed surgical treatment -- 1 immediately and 1 later for the cancer that was found. He saved her life, and always asked how she was doing whenever I saw him. He did this for anyone who came to see him and put all his patients above everything else.
Millie Surati
I knew Dilipbhai ,even before he got married and became part of our family. I met him In Valsad ( Balsar)when he came as Shadi’s guardian or as a friend, he doing residency in Baroda, he new I had some health problems, he invited me there and have all kinds blood tests ,cardio grams etc done!even though he doesn’t know me very well. That’s show his helping nature to anyone. Professionally he was a doctor but he was curious about everything, so curious that he wasn’t afraid of any danger. When we were building Country Inn & Suites , he was involved with all departments , building contractor to Architect to structural engineering. The things I remember was very interesting, we went to see how far the construction work was done . Mostly everyone were there. He was so curious to see the underground parking that even it was very dark in side and with so many supports -very dangerous situation- but he decided to go inside and he went !!! None of us dare to go but HE did, That is called nothing prevents him to achieve he wanted to !!!!!!!!!!! I have encountered so many things with him to share . I will miss him so dearly.
Jay Surati
Dilip bhai was very soft spoken and kind hearted person. Even when we met after years of separation, he being in CA, and us on East coast, his embrace and enthusiasm was very emotional. We will miss him. May Lord give strength to the family to bear his loss. Our heartfelt condolences. R.I.P.
Rakesh-Nila Kohli
May my condolences bring you and your family comfort and may my prayers ease the pain of this loss. Will miss him.
Daksha Patel
Our memories with Dilip uncle were at key family events in which he seemed reserved at first, but once one would begin chatting with him, it was fun delivered with a straight face!; something one wouldn't expect. As an individual he was humble, grounded and dependable. We will miss him immensely, as this news is going to be hard to forget for a long time. Strength and courage to mom, Amit, Reshma, kids and kins.
Sachin & Supriya
We knew Dr. Dilip Patel as our family doctor since year 1985. We depended on him for all of our medical needs so much, now all of a sudden we feel lost and it is hard to accept that he is not there anymore. He was also an excellent mentor to all of us and treated us like one of his family. We are going to miss him rest of our life. Time may pass and fade away but memories of Dr. Patel will always stay. May his soul rest in peace. WE MISS YOU DOCTOR.
Bhat Family
Dear Shadi We are sorry to hear about Dilipbhai news. Our deepest condolences to you and your family. May his soul rest in peace. Om Shanti. 🙏
Kamlesh & Dipti Patel, Vadodara
I knew Dilip for the past 50 years. We met in Polytecnic halls in Baroda while we were in college. We studied together. I knew his mother and father and I treated them as my parents. It was his mother who directed me to Sathya Sai Baba. When he came USA, he stayed with us in New York for couple of years He was not only my friend but my younger brother. Truly I was part of Shivabhai’s family. Dilip took care of my young daughter Sima. He was a very humble, hardworking, ever helping, generous man. He really took care of his elderly parents. He took full responsibility of taking care of Jemini and Niranjan’s family. I really will miss him but I will always have good memories of him .
Dinesh N Patel
Dilip uncle was an amazing man, and we feel privileged to have known him. His helpful nature and calming influence will always be remembered. We know you will miss him deeply. We will be keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Chetna, Rakesh Patel & Family
Please accept our warmest condolences, we are deeply sorry for your loss. Our hearts are saddened to learn of your loss, Please know we are with you.
Rajul Patel
Thank you Dr. Patel for all your help, kindness and hard work. The hospitalist team and your patients at Queen of the Valley will miss you dearly.
Augen Batou
We all are going to miss this gentle soul and great physician . He is going to be with us and his family and patients in memory.
Rohinder Sandhu
I stayed with Dilip during post-graduation I. RMO and also stayed with him in Alkapuri, He was always ready to help others at Any time at any cost, he was very generous and helped others without any expectations. I pray God to give him peace of mind.
Bharat Patel
Dilip, my brother, is the kindest, most caring and compassionate person. It was his nature to help people. I first met him in the hallways of San Gabriel Valley Medical Center in August 1981. He introduced himself and offered to help me in any way I needed. Since then he has been a pillar of support and affection throughout all my life’s challenges. I owe my deepest gratitude to him for treating me like a sister and for helping me and my family in so many ways. His demise is an irreparable loss to me.
Uma A Deperalta
We are deeply saddened by the news. Please accept our deepest condolences. Our prayers with you and your family. He was truly a gentleman and always landed a helping hand. May his soul Rest In Peace.
Bhupendra M. Patel
I first knew Dilip bhai as Niranjanbhai’s brother and later as my physician. He was by far one of the most caring physicians I have ever had the privilege of knowing. He truly cared about his patients and involved us in the treatment plans. He will always hold a special place in my heart. My deepest condolences to all of his family members and may God give them all the strength to bear his loss. We will all miss him dearly. May his soul Rest in Peace. Warm wishes, Bela
Bela Shah
We were very shocked to learn the sudden and untimely passing away of Dilip. I knew him from the time he came in this area to establish his practice. I worked with him very closely for many years in the care of patients. He was hardworking, very knowledgeable, always ready to help. He will be greatly missed.
Nandkumar Dandekar Fiorella Dandekar
I know Dilip since in the college and medical school as we were classmates he was always very helpful and willing to help I never forget he used to bring snacks from Africa and we used to it also when he moved to Alka Puri used to spend time there will miss him God will give you and Sharda and family strength to follow his foot steps pray for his soul to Rest In Peace
Mahendra and Bharati Patel. Dayton Ohio
I am grateful to have met Dr. Dilip Patel, he definitely made an impact in my life. He was a true example of patience and care for other people. Every conversation I would have with him, was always more than just a conversation, for me it was an opportunity to learn and absorb as much wisdom as possible from his wise and caring soul. He would always make me feel important and appreciated. And he always showed love and care for my family as well, my kids were fortunate to know who doctor Dilip Patel was, because almost every time I would meet with him I would not go home empty handed because he would give me a bag full of chocolates and goodies, and he would tell me “take this for your kids” and my kids knew when I was coming from Dr and Mrs. Patel’s house when they would look at the bag full of their favorite candies. This is just a small gesture that perfectly describes his kind heart and humble soul. Thank you Dr. Dilip Patel, for the privilege to have met you, thank you for teaching me so many things, I am a better person today because I had the opportunity to meet you. Rest In Peace Dr. Dilip Patel. With much of Love from my family and I.
Mario Olivares
Your life and actions are an inspiration. Your family and friends will carry on your legacy and I thank you for your love and selfless commitment to others. Thank you for being an example to us.
Jeanne Lammering
I have known Dilip for over 35 years socially and professionally. He was loving, caring and Sincere to his friend and patients equally. Dilip, sure we are going to miss you, but will always keep your memory till We are here on the face of the earth!
Dr Arvind And Mrs Bharati Lapsiwala
Dilip Uncle was “Kaka” to me and my Dad’s adopted younger brother. Their relationship began in Baroda during their medical school years and it carried on when they both came to the United States. Kaka lived with us in Queens, NY during the 70’s. All my early photos were either taken by him or were with him. Jones Beach, Coney Island, even a bike ride around the block all included him. He was my second Dad. As life progressed my parents settled in Ohio and Kaka in California. Over the years we spent many vacations with him, Sharda Auntie, Amit and Amish. He always made us feel special. He made us feel like family. I will always remember him for the generous and loving man he was. How he treated my daughters, Kayla and Kira like grand-daughters. I will miss you Dilip Kaka. I will cherish all the memories and conversations and hold them close to my heart. Rest In Peace and Sai Ram.
Sima Patel
Dilip....your untimely passing has left a deep void within your family....and we have lost a great friend. No words can lessen the shock the family is feeling. May God give them the strength. Rest In Peace My Friend!
Vinod & Smita Shah
I am deeply saddened at the passing of Dr. Patel. He was an excellent clinician who was respected and admired not only by his colleagues but also by the many patients referred to him. He will be sorely missed in our medical community. May he rest in peace!
Miguel Domingo
We are so sad to hear of Dilipbhais passing. He was a great man and we will never forget his smile . We hope all of you find comfort in knowing that death cannot take away your memories of him or the happy times you shared. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and May his soul rest in eternal peace..!! OM SHANTi..!!!🙏🙏 Rita n Kirti Shah
Rita n Kirti Shah
Although he was a man of few words, Dilip Kaka 's sense of humor could make anyone laugh. He will truly be missed.
Tappan Patel
Me and Dilip go back along way. We knew each other from premed school and spent few years knowing each during entire med school He was a gentleman and helping fellow. Very good nature and smiley face all the time . My prayers for peace of his soul and strength for family.
Natu Patel
We met Dilipbhai in 2010 when our niece Reshma married Amit. We had made Ghari and other sweets for Reshma take to her new home! I had seen Dilipbhai after at a separate family event and he immediately came to me and said that was the best Ghari he had ever eaten in his entire life. I knew right away he was a foodie and truly appreciated good food. I will always think of him every time I lay eyes on Ghari. He gave so much to his community and was an amazing husband, father, son, brother, and the best Grandfather. The heavens have truly gained an Angel. May his beautiful soul rest in peace! 🙏🏻
Jayshree & Rajesh
May his soul Rest In Peace Om Shanti
Dr. Patel Piyush
True caring family men! He dedicated his life for his family and friends. I saw him caring for my friend Dr Mukesh Amin for a year. True Vaishnavagen. Never take credit for his help and hard work. We will miss him!
Hemant V Patel
I and Nargis pray that his soul rest in eternal peace. So shocked to hear about this so untimely. He was a wonderful human being Always welcoming whenever I went to see him and so kind. Our sincere condolences to you and the family.
Bud Kurwa
Sorry to hear Dr Dilip departure from this earth physically. OM Shanti
Hasmukh and Jyotsna shah
May he rest in peace my sincere condolences to the family our prayers are with u all
Alma del barrio
I will greatly miss working with Dr. Patel. I truly enjoyed his dry humor and appreciated that he always waved to me as we passed in the halls on the way to see our many patients. ~Claudia
Claudia Munoz
Dilip you will be always in my heart, thanks for your friendship and your teaching, it was 25 years we work together, the dinner we were supposed to have in my place and that unfortunately had to be canceled for the Pandemic will be held in your memory with your son and wife it they give the honor. You will be always remembered.
JoseGabriel Castellanos MD
When I first moved to California, stayed at Dilipbhai’s home. I am forever very grateful for the support and guidance he provided during those initial challenging days. Very fortunate to have a cousin like him and will forever treasure fond memories of eating at his favorite restaurants and in-depth late-night chats! Words can't express how much we are all going to miss him. Rest in peace. Sai Ram
Raju & Madhu Patel
Working with Dr. Patel I felt like as if we were family. He was so kind to me. I respected him very much. He was a wonderful son to momma and poppa up to their last days. I was always admired by how he was a great family man; father and grandfather. I will always hold him in my memory with lots of gratitude.
Isabel Ortega
Dr D Patel had been an iconic figure of our hospital. A colleague, a friend we will always remember you !
Aamir Jamal
This is a great loss, too soon , for all the family members, friends and all of his patients too. Dilipbhai was a perfect gentleman, very caring physician, husband, father, grandfather, friend & on & on. He had reached out thousands of people to help in any which way he can. We wish him all the best in his final journey. May GOD gives the strength to the family to cherish his life.
Shaila & Jatin Laxpati
We knew Dilipbhai for about 11 years,since our Daughter Reshma and Amit married Dilipbhai and Shardaben invited us into the extended family immediately. Dilipbhai was very caring person and showed great interest in our health and took us under his wing and advised us on our health concerns,He was passionate about other and was always there whenever we reached out reading a health concern.He was an amazing soul,a great father,son,grandfather and will be missed dearly by all.May his soul Rest In Peace. Om Shanti. Bharat and Rita 🙏🏻
Bharat and Rita
I have known Dilipbhai as my friend Niranjan’s brother for past 50 years. He was a Med student deep in his studies and we were on opposite side !! We used to fear him and would tip toe in his house. He would look at us and not say a word. Fast forward...he just loved his family. He was the God Father. Any time Niranjan needed me, Dilipbhai would call me and say “Indravadan, your friend needs you”...man of few words but hugh impact. Couple of years back two of us were sitting at a dinner table and I told him how we feared him. He smiled and asked me “am I that bad ?” We both cracked up and had a great hearty laugh. We will truly miss him.
I.R.and Kumud Patel
Dear Shardi, our condolences to you and the family. May God give you all the strength in these difficult times.
Viresh and Amita Patel
I knew Dilip for last 32 years in both personal and professional capacity. He played a big role in others well being, comfort and success. His passion and devotion to his profession was unmatched. His patients loved him. His colleagues counted on him. His office and hospital staff admired him. I will miss him dearly.
Hiren Shah,MD
Being his batchmate during college days, knew him superficially. But after graduation in 1972 and beginning of post graduation in January 1974, I had the chance to know him better as we both could spend time together, both of us being posted in Ophthalmology. Though he left for USA in about 6 months, during that short period I saw him as a gentle and simple human being - someone without any malice. The news of his sudden demise is a shock. My condolences to the family🙏
Bhushan Shukla
My mentor,, my best friend , my big brother, my father you mix all and that’s make “Dilipbhai” . Each time he sees me he says “ Hey Vijay “ with such sweetness and love. I wish I can here it now from him. No word can sum up. Amazing personally, mesmerizing smile, energy, enthusiasm and 100% dedication to profession and help everyone as individual and with at most care and compassion. No word can sum up working daily for 24 years ,It’s can only be experience and continue to deliver to our friends and family and community. We all missing you, Travel on my dear mento,ray dear friend... Hey Vijay
Vijay Patel
Dilipbhai demonstrated to everyone how life should be lived! Shardabhabi and Dilipbhai showed me what family meant. I stayed with them in the early 90's and will never forget their generosity. Still remember going to Shakey's Pizza and going to the mountains in his minivan. He will be missed!! Sai Ram.
Shailesh
The common thread amongst each of our memories is his willingness and eagerness to help anyone in anyway possible. When I was first diagnosed with asthma at the age of eight, it was a frightening ordeal. I vividly recollect him ensuring that I had every possible inhaler I needed. He would check in on me to see how I was doing and make sure I took my medication accordingly. No matter what your profession may be, as time passes, we tend to forget what drove us into that field to start with. We begin to put our selves on autopilot and simply go through the motions day after day. The passion to help someone in distress never abandoned his heart. He stayed true to what drove him into medicine until the end. Rest easy Dilip Masa.
Anant Patel
Hello Amit and family, I am one of the sales reps that called on Dr. Dilip weekly. At first I was scared of him. He had certain expectations like only signing my iPad with a stylus. Dear God how many times did I frantically look for a stylus as he was approaching me? He liked to give me a hard time. If I left samples, it wasn’t enough, if I asked him to write my product, he’d ask if I would pay his staff to do the authorizations, etc. Always a hearty discussion and he’d surely give me a hard time! Later on as we got to know each other, he showed his sweeter side. When I’d visit, he go get candy from his office to hand to me. I’d say “I’m trying to lose weight” and he’d say “ that’s not for you it for your girls!”. Yesterday I finally had the courage to go to the office and talk to Dr. Vijay and Roxanne. I’ll miss Dr. Dilip deeply. I have called on many physicians in my 15 year career and have never felt compelled to write a comment or had a persistent sadness. He will be missed. Keep his wonderful memory alive with your kids.
Gina Hulefeld
Thank you Dr. Dilip Patel for being our two generations Family Doctor. You became our dear friend and we will miss you. Dear family of Dr. Patel, please accept our heartfelt condolences. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time
Alex and Anna Semerenko
I am deeply honored to be a patient of Dr Patel. My heart and prayers go out to his wife, children and the entire family. Dr Patel had passion and complete devotion to his profession and to his patients. I loved his sincerity, an honest and genuine physician. He was direct and to the point, he didn’t necessary tell what you wanted to hear, he told you the facts. Dr Patel was the true description of a competent, reliable and professional doctor. We will miss one of the best doctors of our time. Thank you Dr Patel for everything you did for us
Rod Mafla
thank you dr dilip patel for helping in my practice. i will miss you. you were great human been and great supporter
DEVESH PATEL
I have known Dilip since our prescience class in 1966. in Vadodara. Very hard working, loving man with few words.We hang out together in college and afterwards going for evening walks.Later we went to London together before moving to USA. Dilip, Prakash and me flew toUS and ended up in Dinesh's home in New York. He encouraged me to move to California in early 80's.We have spent lot of time together with family. He was always there to help in anyway possible. He visited every evening after long day of work when my wife got sick with cancer. He will call me Junior and was like a big brother time I will miss him a lottttt.
Rajendra Patel (Junior)
It was my privilege to have been a patient of Dr. Patel for many years and to have been made better by his special abilities and knowledge, but most of all by his caring, concern, and self-sacrificing attitude in giving of himself. I was also made better by just knowing he was available and would respond. I was impressed and touched by his care and love for his family. As a Nurse as well as a patient, I know Dr. Patel was indeed, very special and the good that he did for others was a special gift that will live on in the hearts of those lives he touched. Although no words can express the depth of his loss, I appreciate the opportunity to have shared in the memory of Dr. Patel and offer my sympathy and thank you to his family for the opportunity. Jan Platz
Janet Platz
My Deepest condolences to the family. Dr. Dilip Patel was a wonderful man I’ve been his long time patient for over 25 years and he always made sure to take care of me he was so good to me and I’m sure going to deeply be missed. A good man gone too soon.. RIP Dr. Patel 😢💔🙏🏻
Imelda Bynog
I have known Dr Patel and his family for many years now. He was a kind man who took care of his parents , his wife and his kids in the most compassionate manner. I remember a dinner with him and his wife and he was full of ideas and always wanted to help. I am saddened by his untimely death and pray to God to give his family strength to bear this loss. May his soul Rest In Peace.
Roger sharma
Dr.Patel will be greatly missed not only for his knowledge of pulmonary expertise... But for the amazing person he was..a true hero in my eyes .. Rest In Peace Dr. Patel.. Your legacy will live on forever ...
Jesse Cerrillo
Dear Sharda , Our heartfelt condolences to you & family. I am sure you are strong enough to bear the great loss. May the great soul rest in peace . I don't know, you will remember me or not. Dilip knew me well. I am from Borsad. My father & Chandukaka were very good friends. We had met when you were students at Baroda with Kaushika . With lots of love, Dr. Lata Shah Baroda
Dr. Lata SHAH
I knew Dr. Patel for 15 years. I met him when I first moved to the United States and worked as a new nurse at Queen of the Valley. Like any other new nurse, I am one of those nurses that is scared of him. He was firm and strict. He wants to make sure that his patient is being cared for. He is a mentor, a father, a friend, and our weight watcher ( ouch). He always teaches us every time he has an interesting case, shows Xray and CT SCan; he likes to challenge us by asking questions and reward me with candies or treat us to lunch if we get the answers right. He will give us money to buy Starbucks coffee and will make a comment," buy coffee and wake up; I will dc the sedation of your patient expect that patient will be all over the place and you need to work hard. We may not have met his family, but Dr. Patel always has good stories to share with us when it comes to his family. To Mr. Amit Patel, your dad shares your wedding videos and pictures at the Nixon library and shows how he dance during the wedding. He always tells us that you are into cars. I remember asking him if he cried during your wedding since you are the firstborn, and his answer is NO" Why would I cry? I gained a daughter ( with a big smile). To Dr. Amit Patel, before you even started working with emanate your dad already told us, he also shares with us when you propose and share your recent wedding pictures with us and tell us that his daughter in law is an OB physician at Kaiser. To Mrs. Patel, he always tells us that the reason why his sons are tall, dark, and handsome because of your genes, that good thing they didn't get his height. Dr. Patel is a cool grandfather. He always shares stories about taking them to Chucky cheese and Seaworld and attending school activities like grandparents' day. As a physician, he knows his patient really well, and he has a personal connection with them. On one occasion, he asks me to buy a cake for his patient since he can't discharge the patient before her birthday. One of the most things I am thankful for from Dr. Patel is he pushes me to be better and encouraged me to go back to school and pursue my Nurse practitioner. Although I was still sad that he is no longer with us, I am glad that I saw him last February 3 when I was doing my clinicals at ICC. His last words to me" When are you going to be finished with school? Hurry up before I hang my white coat =( Thank you, Dr. Patel, for everything. You are one of the people that I will be thinking and thanking on my graduation. Merian
MERIAN MENDOZA APOLINARIO
We would like to offer our condolences to our friend, Dr Patel family, he was one of the nicest person we known, he will be remembered
Charnchai & Pisanu Phaecharoensook
Dilip and I began our friendship in 1969 during our college days. We didn't know it then, but we would both adopt a similar path in life that led us through medical college, board examinations and journeying to the United States for a new opportunity. Having had the privilege to work side by side with Dilip, I found him to be the epitome of devotion. His work ethic matched by his dedication allowed him to treat patients like they were his own family. Dilip would never complain about the long hours and would go out of his way, day or night, to make sure a patient was seen or treated. He did all this with kindness, compassion, and an infectious smile that would bring joy. Dilip was an outstanding man who provided as much love as one could give. He selflessly shared it equally with his family, friends, and colleagues and never asked for anything in return. Dilip was a pillar of strength, something that my family and I came to rely on during several critical times in my life. He played a huge part in ensuring that our families created a strong bond and closeness, and Kalpana and I will make sure to continue strengthening and supporting that bond. Dilip was my colleague, my confidant, and my best friend, and I am honored and lucky to have had someone like him by me and my family’s side these past 52 years. I will miss him greatly, but he will continue to live on in all of our hearts.
Prakash & Kalpana
Dilip, a very kind, caring n humble person for all, one is very fortunate to have known. We were very lucky to have spent time together. He and his whole Family, full of love n care, made us feel very much at home. His presence shall be missed a lot. Dilipbhai's camera gift has clicked lots of beautiful photos n created many artworks. He was a great teacher and an inspiration, to be a great human being. His absence shall be felt, though he has left a treasure of happy memories, full of joy, for the proud Family n Friends. Emotional n touching Messages from Family n Friends. Love, Dilip and Nalini Desai
Nalini Desai
Dr. Patel has been taking care of me for a while...he is the kind of doctor that is literally always there for you when u need him. The first time i met him, i waited for 2 hours just to see him....and this didnt turned me off. In fact, it made me all the more want him as my Dr. and all these years...he has taken cared of me well...i even brought my mom and dad to him so he can take care of them too. I am very lucky to have him as my Dr. We will miss him a lot for sure. THANK YOU SO MUCH DOR EVERYTHING DR. PATEL! To his loved ones and family, our sincerest condolences. We will pray for all of you through this time and will also pray for Dr. Patel. May you rest in peace Dr. 🙏🏻
Anna Dionisio
Great man and very helpful for everyone
Chetna patel
This is your Testimonial quote. Give your customers the stage to tell the world how great you are!Rest in peace my friend Dilip , last I saw you was in Baroda Medical College Wish we could have met My prayers and best wishes for the family Niranjan Atlanta Georgia 🙏
Niranjan J Dave
Dilip bhai was my mentor in medical college Baroda. Being 2 years senior, he was like a big brother to me and guided me like one ! Gave me his text books . I went to his residence to use his microscope to study pathology and for peaceful reading environment. Very calm and kind hearted man. When I came to USA for the first time, he picked me up from KFK airport and kept with him in his house in Secaucus NJ. Gave me shelter , food and money to survive in a new country along with invaluable guidance ! Who wold do that without being a blood relative. May his immortal Atma be with Lord forever in eternal peace 🙏 May Lord give his survivors strength to bear his unbearable loss 🙏🙏 I will remember him forever. Vijay Patel MD Munster Indiana.
Dr. Vijay Patel MD
Dilipbhai is one of the most amazing person Bina and I met after Sunit got engaged with Sheena. We visited Dilipbhai multiple times at his house and he was so warm hearted, loving, compassionate and caring. He clearly demonstrated his duty as an elder brother for Jaiminiben and the pillar of the family. We miss his beautiful smile. We had such a good time with him when he attended Sheena and Sunit's engagement in San Jose. We will miss his company. Please accept our deepest condolences for the family and our prayers are with the family during this difficult times. Bina and Rajit
Bina and Rajit Shah
We met Dilipbhai at Dinesh and Pushpa’s house in Queens in 1975. Have some very fond memories of our small get together.May Waheguru rest his kind soul in peace and give Sharda and family strength to cope with this great loss.🙏🙏
Sati and Kawal Dhanjal
Dilipbhai was a great support to my brother Mukeshbhai and family. A wonderful person and a great human being who always stood by his family. Our prayers for the noble soul to rest in peace and give strength to his loved ones to bear the big loss 🙏